Love or fling?

Just now, a friend confided that she's no longer in a relationship. She met this guy back in NY and got hooked after a week of knowing each other. However as time flies (about 2 months), he started to sense the need for commitment, something that has been keeping him in bachelorhood, making him resorted to just utter : "let's just be friend". Sighhy...she's now torn between the affections of she has towards him and the dignity of a girl. She's deeply hurt now. Is there such thing as fairness in this issue? I suppose there's no right or wrong, but a matter of compatibility. Moreover, they are from two different world, one is a guy grew up in a complicated metropolitan city and is used to the term "one night stand" while another is a girl who is still inoccent and gullible. (sounds familiar~)

I don't know what i should do, first for i being inexperience, second for there's nothing that i can do but just be beside her and remind her to be strong. She who used to be a crybaby said she has been trying to act fine for the past week and try not to cry about it as she wishes to show that she's tough at the same time. Does that mean that less crying is strong and therefore more crying is weak? I always think that crying can help one to release a lot of tension! At least for me! -_"

Actually, deep down, i know i have been really choosy.....not to say choosy, i am still searching for the right one. However, i know i did not give myself chance to meet people for the past 2 years. Wonder if i'll stumble into someone like hers. Anyway, i shall put this matter aside again.....all for that 4 letter words! :P...B**k! I have been through a lot of different kind of stressors but a hell love trap as a young adult, no, not yet!

note: at this moment i do feel to write to him but no, i dont think i should! hehehe..wondering who's that person? ^ ^ ....no not gonna tell :P