In reply to mich's blog!

I figure that i got quite a bit to write in my comment that i should just blog my thoughts about it!! But i think i'll dwell away from your topic as i add in my thoughts!

Hm...some important dates to us are of course important but to some other it's just another day. I don't boast having lots of frens but i know that deep down if i ever need help, i can easily name a handful of people. I am already grateful for that!

I can understand the feeling where one is wondering where her friends have gone when she thinks this is the moment that she hopes to share with them. For my convocation, i have never thought of seeing anyone there except my own family members. The reason is due to the fact that i've already witnessed that it's not even easy for someone to take off to attend her own bestfriend wedding!!!! To me, it'll only be teribbly disappointing if i don't see any of my supposedly close friends there for my wedding! (hehe...i don't intend to be a spinster!) In return, i promised myself that i will try my very best to make myself available on the very same day my friend is celebrating the joy of her life!

Not everyone whom we thought is our laughing partner is destined to be our friend. I have learned that special chemistry is needed to keep a true friendship alive. If there's ever the special chemistry spark between two people, the hydrogen bond will be turned into an ionic or a covalent bond! Those bonding will be so strong that both of them will never be far away from each other thoughts although they are miles apart. To me those people are sisters i never have. How can your sister be a stranger to you then?? I maybe naive but i believe my friends are as naive as i do! Su told me that if my problem involves others financial interest, then i'll only be able to truly count my friend(s) and acquaintances. I answered that those handful of people that i am thinking now will all be my friends.

Even myself, i can be nice to everyone but i can't be available to the same amout of people all the time. The fact that we only have 24 hours a day, it's already a limit to our wilful mind! What more if we have nothing in our bank account. That's reality. However, there are people that i know i'll never be able able to say "no" in whatever situation!

However, if you ever think that you are alone......don't only think of me, at least send me an e-mail so that the bonding will be recharged! Coz sometimes the chemistry concoction can go wrong as we can't read each other mind although our minds do think alike at times! Am i contradicting myself here!!!?? :P