Another week....ending with a great valentine weekend

It was a great weekend spent with friends. I had great laugh and spent much energy playing volleyball after intense studying session in between. Mich, i know, another year passed by without a significant other. I know i broken that "i have never made Jan 28,2009 dateline to have a bf" promise. It's ok. It may take me a lifetime to look for the one that i could spend my lifetime with. Ok, the math of this equation will never turn out well...after spending lifetime searching, where else can i have another lifetime to spend ya! =P

I truly have to give thanks, just as usual, i always feel blessed.

Work has recently been a little more stressful. Working in icu is no fun with all sick and "begging" to die patients to face day in day out. My heart actually wish to cry everyday when i see my favourite patient getting sicker or witnessing those who are not supposed to suffer, fell sick. An 18 year old who had severe seizure when she is 38 weeks old pregnant needing to go into ICU. What has she done? The presence of insensible nurses doesn't help the fact. During the past few weeks, there were so many minutes where i was judging my ability over and over again. I am just not that smart. I was very cognizant of all my insufficiency and mistakes. It is not fun to be able to see it. It is bothersome. Is there a miracle that will help me to deal with this? I started to pray yesterday and made a promise.

I am truly glad that i am only doing my icu rotation only now, after learning more about myself. I would have broken down more often if not because of past experience. I also have to acknowledge as well that my anger and outburst management has been going well. jean, i do have to credit you for this. I was humbled by your words. The past weeks, although being surrounded by bitchy nurses, i have been able to stay as peaceful as i can. Mixing with non-medical friends helps a lot too. Because i will always end up feeling that i am so small whenever i reflect on those work trouble. It is stupid to be mad. Maybe looking for a non-medical personnel as a life-partner will be a wise thing to do!



(-_-)***life is a blessing when surrounded by people with beautiful heart...